mywife4 said: Can give us suggestions for my mature professional wifes first black man experience? How is the easiest and best way to get her introduced so that she feels safe and comfortable. This has been a long awaited decision and time is passing for her to have this experience.
The way we typically have done it is through a response to a profile on a swinger site. We take a look at their profile, the pictures in it, and ask for access to their private pix, and we do the same for ours, although faces showing are not a requirement.
A lot will be responses to your profile/ad—and we have a disclaimer in the text to ensure they have read the profile. If they are not reading the profile first, we move along. Next!
Most men active in the lifestyle will typically have their face showing, but after a message exchange or two they are usually willing to share a g-rated photo. (If they don’t have a g-rated photo of themselves,move on to the next person).
The profile has to fit the type of man my wife likes best: tall, over 35, professional, and in it for the fun. It is amazing how a profile can reveal a lot.
The next thing is we ask if they have read our profile, and we restate how we like to play it. Straight hubby likes to be there to take photos, safe sex for anything vaginal, no anal, etc. With an affirmative response, we ask for a phone number and she talks to him on the phone. Again there is a lot about how compatible they will be revealed in a phone conversation—and they talk about what each other likes. The phone call also tends to ramp up the erotic side of things.
After a couples of messages back and forth, and a phone call, we meet for a drink, usually in a hotel bar. We have the room reserved and will spend the night if she gets a bad vibe in person and says “Sorry, I just don’t think it will work.” We have a buzz word prearranged if she wants to bail.
Now having said that I can say that for most women when they have agreed to meet a potential black lover they have already made up their mind to do him—provided he is as he represented himself.
From there we go up to the room and everyone leaves smiling.
I’m not saying this is the only way to do it, but it has worked very well for us.
lonerancher said: Are there any marriages that do not survive this? Are there any white women that leave there husbands for black men?
I think that question is obvious—of course it can be too much for a husband to handle, or a wife that goes off the deep end and becomes infatuated. Unstable marriages and couples who do not communicate should stay away from the lifestyle. I would go farther than that—I would say that there are few couples in the interracial lifestyle that have NOT had the survival of their marriage threatened by entering the lifestyle. It is an intense thing for all involved.
letsbadassbilly said: how do i find black guys for my wife to fuck that is safe i want to get her into porn movies
Safe? That is a good question, considering that the news today is reporting an HIV outbreak in the porn business and three or four people already announcing they are testing positive. The best way we have found is online swinger sites, although you need to go into it knowing that it takes a lot of filtering and checking out before you meet. I’d recommend you always have a phone call before meeting and perhaps a skype conversation, just to prove everyone is real.
, “I’m going to fill that white pussy full of my cum, girl. You want my black cum inside you?”
“Yes,” Tracy said, arching her back and slamming her pelvis forward to eagerly meet his thrust.
“Shoot your cum inside me, I want you to cum inside me,” she yelled, feeling his body jerking in unison with his grunts and moans, finally slamming his cock into her a move that scooted her several inches over the bed, then remaining still, his cock still inside her.
From “No Rules” by Erik D. Astor
Books by Erik D. Astor
“I’d always wondered what it would be like to fuck a black guy and I was going to find out. Does that shock you?” I asked him.
Des smiled, “No, like I said the other night. I knew it about you, you just never admitted it, go on, it’s hot and I have a raging hard on.”
“Let me see…” I laughed as he unzipped his pants and pulled out his hard throbbing cock. He was enjoying my story. “So it excites you the fact that I fucked a black guy?”
“Looks like it,” he said. I unbuttoned my halter and pulled it down to my waist.
“He loved sucking on my boobs,” I said, just then noticing the three small hickeys on my left breast. I didn’t notice that when I dressed.
“As he should have,” my husband said.
“Come here, and kiss my nipples” I said. We put the night’s narrative on hold, and he started sucking on my nipples. I couldn’t resist. I started the descriptions that had fired Des up before, “You know as you’re sucking my nipples, that someone else was sucking those same nipples less than an hour ago. ”I knew Des was ready, and I was ready too.
“You’ve fucked me as your lover, and you’ve fucked me as your wife,” I whispered, “now fuck me as a black man’s white slut.” He backed away for a second, confused, and then I pulled up my dress, where he could read in the marker the words, “James’ black cock slut”.
From “10 Dates For My Wife” by Erik D. Astor
This is the cover I wanted to use but had to tone down for general sites. You can see the original cover at the link below.